This website wasn't started just for any reason.  It was actually started when it was already too late.  For those of you that have been affected by cancer you'll know when I tell you that it's something you don't even think about until it happens to you.  Some of us could have cared less about the problem or even worse finding a cure for it.  As much as it hurts to admit it, I was one of those people.  You see, I lost my mother to lung cancer about 2 years ago after finding out when she was already at a stage 4. 

I honestly couldn't accept it at all and I didn't have a clue how to handle it.  I couldn't see it, hear about it or even be in the same room with "it".  I couldn't be around it, period.  The terrible part about this and the reason that I'm speaking so openly about it is that I wasn't there for the one that I loved.  In my eyes all I thought about was the "it" which was cancer.  If you're someone who may be in a situation like this I need to let you know in advance that the guilt will kill you just like cancer would.  When my mother passed away from cancer I truly lost my own life that terrible September day.  Please don't follow in these footsteps and please get help before you suffer the same.  There are plenty of FREE clinics in just about every location and they will welcome you with open arms.  

This is why it's time to actually do something about my the regret and to try and educate others who could be facing similar issues.  There was really only one thing that I did right during the time my mother was battling cancer and here is just that: